Gone... with no reason.

In 1999, we sold our home in Cotswold. A neighbor had a friend who had always liked the look of the house. She saw it and made an offer. I had a toddler and a 4 year old. I had to keep the house clean for 1 day. I was thrilled. We moved to Hembstead. My only complaint with the new owner of my little home was that she tore out the boxwood shrubs we had so carefully nurtured back to health. She was moving her Mother in to care for her they lived there alone. She felt it was dangerous. Someone could hide behind them given how large they were and where they were located in front of the house.

She nursed her Mom through her death, moved on with her life, still lived in "my" home. My oldest Charlotte friend and reliable confidant still lives two doors down from my old home. So when Janet, its new owner disappeared on Sunday after dining with friends at the Liberty East, she called me. As the information has come to light, she has called. So I was so saddened to hear her body had been found not far from where her car was found days after her disappearance. The details are unknown, but it appears she was in the area related to her business and ran afoul of the wrong person/people. It took me back to the bushes. She was a careful and thoughtful person, who considered her surroundings and took heed for her safety. But it was not enough to save her in broad day light from someone who meant her harm. I feel vulnerable hearing of her death. I feel mortal. And yet, I feel resigned. We must do what we can to be safe... "Don't be a Victim" and all. But we have to live, love and give freely everyday.

A lesson can be taken from Janet's life. She was laughing with friends and headed to a family meal that last day. She spoke to her boyfriend and she went for food for her beloved pet. She was living right up to the end. And I hope she felt safe in the sunshine and did not see anything coming. I hope she felt no fear. I hope her family finds peace and answers. And I hope they can refocus on her life.... and not the manner of her death. I hope we all can focus on our lives and reach out to those around us.

God rest her soul and be with her family and friends again as they grieve anew.